When we love others, we don't expect anything in return. We accept people for who they are and try to help them, but we aren't concerned with how we'll benefit from the relationship. Real love isn't jealous, possessive or limited to just a few near and dear ones. Rather, it's impartial and is felt for all beings. —Ven. Chodron in Buddhism for Beginners http://thubtenchodron.org/books/buddhism-for-beginners